Hi everyone, I wanted to share my experience and ask for some advice. My wife and I work at a lender so are familiar enough with the process of home buying from the lender side. We are purchasing our 1st home in NJ which is an attorney state.
We have been looking over the last 4 months and finally found a house in our budget that we were able to get an accepted offer on. The house was priced by seller well out of market value so it sat for 4 months doing 4 price cuts. We like the house as it has a ton of space and a finished basement but it is an older house that needs a ton of work (HVAC needs to be completely replaced, stove and fireplace converted to gas, deck has to be torn down and rebuilt as it is rotting etc) normal house stuff that we understand the cost for and want to make our own anyway. The sellers moved in 10 years ago, and moved out without upgrading or touching a thing aside from a full roof replacement 7 years ago. It is also vacant.
During the initial inspection, the listing agent followed us around making comments like “we had a previous buyer but they were super nit picky so we didn’t sell to them, you don’t want to be nit picky so you” and “my clients want to sell to nice people you want me to tell the how nice you are right) so naturally we were a bit uneasy asking the inspector questions. She also made a comment “of course you’re nervous you’re a FTHB you don’t know anything”
All fine, we had to go back a 2nd time for another inspection and she (listing agent) had an alleged warranty for the HVAC that we weren’t allowed to see and reinstalled a slop sink, we tried to turn on the slop sink, she freaked out and kicked us out of the room. Bad taste in our mouth
During inspection negotiations we brought up that we weren’t allowed to turn on the slop sink but from when we touched it, the knobs were on the wrong way and we requested to see the warranty. We also requested $5,000 seller credit lump sum for all of the work needed (very fair for the state of the house) as they made it clear they wouldn’t do any. Their attorney sent us a brochure with 3 warranties on it not filled out and the listing agent lied about the slop sink piece stating it never happened, we fully inspected it and are “just looking for credits” she was completely wrong because my father was with us the day it was installed and not the 1st day and she referenced him being there, and the didn’t respond to the credit piece. We went back and forth a few times over the course of 2 weeks getting incorrect or half truth info and a “very generous offer of no work + $1,000 credits”
I’m very agitated at this point as I’ve been on the phone for days going though attorneys who send one message to each other a day, I say “you know what, let’s just close my wife really wants the house, arguing over a few thousand doesn’t make sense at this point, we’ll just close at 3,000 credits and not go through the process of getting quotes and extending this any longer.
They countered with $1,500, up from $1,000 and the listing agent said it was “her fault for misremembering some facts”
My wife now thinks this is more ridiculous than I do, we told our agent we’re making our last offer again at $3,000 credits and if it’s not accepted we are walking away
Have you been in a situation like this? I am very stressed I’m throwing away a good house over a few thousand and a really bad listing agent but we have till October on our lease that we can get out of whenever and go month to month if we have to, I’m very confident we will find another similar house at some point, I just don’t like these people and am done with them
Potentially backing out of purchase due to bad listing agent
byu/Nattylightbeam24 inRealEstate
Posted by Nattylightbeam24
9 Comments
The listing agent is temporary and the house is indefinite. You need to decide how much you want it.
You listed maybe 100k of work if you pay professionals, are you gonna blow a deal for a 2k difference in credits because ‘they wont meet me in the middle’ which people expect but isnt realistic always. Anyway take a look at other listings for sale and decide if its still a good value ignoring things you can fix look at the sq footage,layout, location these are the real things to be concerned with. Cant fix busy street or too far from shopping etc. Is this location best? Are the schools ghetto and kids gettin shanked for lunch money?
I think there might be a few things to unpack here.
1. NJ is not a required attorney state. There seems to be a very weird split – many in NNJ use attorneys – many in SNJ don’t.
2. Credits are relative. You note that your ask is very fair relative compared to the condition of the property. How is the home priced relative to comps? If already deeply discounted you may be getting a fair deal.
3. Realtor notes the warranty. She provided documents. Fine. Is a warranty a requirement for you? Are they providing copies of the type of coverage they’ll purchase for you? If so. Get it in writing.
4. The sink may bother me. If it wasn’t there before and it is now you probably have grounds to ask for a reinspection at least of that and you may ask for them to cover a plumber of your choosing.
5. Where’s your realtor in all this? They should be the one handling this. And same – you note an attorney – what’s their communication? Presumably you’re doing attorney review – has that period already lapsed? If so – fine – they’re good with the contract but they should also be weighing in.
I would just back out at this point and make sure to note it is due to the listing agents conduct. Chances are the sellers don’t know half the story either and there are more issues that they are not telling you / showing you. Not worth the risk in my opinion
walk…………too many red flags in the first few paragraphs
The house has more problems then you think. They need you more than you need them. You have the leverage.
Denying a professional inspection!?
I would be terrified!
I wouldn’t walk, I’d run! There is never a legitimate reason to deny a licensed home inspector.
Walk. Sometimes things happen like this because it’s not meant to work out. Trust me I wish I listened to all the things pre buying my house. I purchased land to build a house. Initially I liked the lot next door. Drove 6 hours to see it got home put a bid on it. It was marked as active on MLS no sellers notes I was the agent as well. Put the offer in and it’s sold. Then a week later the neighboring lot goes up for sale at 20k more than the other lot. I put an offer in at the neighboring lot price seller says no. A day later they call back and say yes. Durning the survey the lot comes in .22 ac short. I have the survey co go to the county to the basement to unearth surveys from the 60’s to find the pins. They locate them. I close. My closing was a mess. The attorney filed the deed wrong. Then I get to my builder. Who at first was great. My house was supposed to be done months earlier. But, the cherry on top was my builder liked to hunt with his son. As I’m moving out of my apartment into a short term rental (house isn’t done) I get an email from his wife. While hunting his son shot him (multiple times) mistook a very tall man for a deer. It was a mess. Sometimes things throw curveballs at you for a reason listen to them. Don’t buy this house.