In escrow: is my realtor screwing me on showings and backup offers?

We’re in escrow, and they’re repping both us and the buyer (which I’m not a fan of. But we live in a smaller market so it’s common here).

They’ve lost our trust with the way they’re negotiating and they’re clearly siding with the buyer now. Is there a way for them to prove to me that they haven’t shut down the MLS, or that they somehow haven’t made it MORE difficult for us to get backup offers? We haven’t had any showings while in escrow. I understand that might be common, especially in a smaller market. But again, trust has gone out the window.

When the offer came in and when we asked about still showing and taking backup offers they came up with some excuse as to why they couldn’t. When we said this was a non-negotiable they told us they’d lose their license. We knew this wasn’t the case. We pushed them on this and pretended like they got confused with our question then eventually agreed to show it while it’s in escrow. Bizarre.

Can someone please help? How can I ask for proof that they’re not screwing us on showings and getting backup offers while in escrow. Thank you!!