A few years back I had a colleague who was always borrowing money and having to pay and borrow every now and then. I thought it’s because it was due to renting and having to depend on oneself especially since we were fresh graduates. He got a job and started earning around 7-9 times more than he did. The job also offered him a new house at very low rental costs and he moved away from the city to a new town which was way cheaper. Still he seemed to struggle as he was literally broke a year after leaving that job and asked for money from me. On the other hand I always had money to save even in college and despite renting, buying food and using money for transport from the little that I had I still managed to do what was impossible for many in the same state as me i.e saving
Does saving money and financial success relate to our personality
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It comes very natural to some people. But not me. My wife is a natural saver. I can see it in one of my kids too. She’s so cheap, it’s hilarious. But my other kid is a lot more like I was. Any money I had, I spent. Saving was a skill I had to learn and is one of the reason why I’m on this sub.
A lot of people really just spend whatever money that have available and therefore, are always “broke”. Because whenever that impending emergency comes up, they don’t have the money for it.
Yeah risk tolerance / need for safety is definitely a personality trait that’s just different between different people. You see it a lot with people that grow up poor and then enter a well-paying job. They don’t know how to spend and save excessively, because they are scared of being poor again!
I’ve noticed saving and spending seem to relate a lot to impulsiveness and anxiety. I’m not impulsive at all and I have anxiety that makes me think about worst case scenarios, so I like saving money because it makes me feel secure if something bad was to happen.
If someone doesn’t worry about the future and is also impulsive then l could see how saving would be harder for them, or may not occur to them at all.
There are so many issues that can lead to this.
– ADHD (executive function issues)
– Bipolar disorder (spending while manic)
– Addiction issues (gambling addiction, alcohol, drugs causing money to be lost.)