I’m 29, been investing into my 401k since I graduated and started my Roth IRA and HSA a few years later. I like to think I’m doing well for my age in terms of my retirement saving, but now I’m realizing I may want a house around age 35-40 and I’m not really sure how to start building a down payment big enough without slashing my retirement savings and falling behind.

    Do you put money in a taxable account, in a total market fund? MMF/HYSA? Bonds/CDs? I’m just lost on how “best” to do it.

    Given my income and my expenses, I don’t see how I can build up enough money for a good down payment without cutting my 401k down to 8% from 12% (for maxing company match) and would likely need to stop maxing the Roth IRA and/or HSA as well, and that just feels awful to me. My main thing is I hate knowing that if I save for a house I am likely losing out on 30+ years of compounding, tax advantaged growth. Especially so if I end up saving for years and then buying a house just never ends up happening for XYZ reason, and I essentially missed the growth for nothing. How do you stomach that and accept it’s not a mistake to do so?

    Extra info about my finances currently:

    I’m on a single income of 118k that I don’t realistically expect to increase too much in the next few years, apart from ~3-4% merit increases annually.

    For retirement saving, I put 12% into my 401k (5% traditional and 7% roth) and my company adds another 7.5% traditional, for a total of 12.5% traditional and 7% Roth going into 401k. I also max out my HSA and Roth IRA yearly.

    My portfolio right now consists of ~25k emergency fund in FDLXX MMF, ~60k in my taxable brokerage account, ~125k tax deferred from trad 401k, and ~105k tax free from Roth 401k/Roth IRA/HSA.

    Between all my investments, not including the emergency fund, I am currently sitting at 65.5/29.5/5 for US/Foreign/Bonds. I do VTI/VXUS when I can, but the 401k amount is in a TDF I can’t control perfectly.

    How do you balance saving for retirement vs. saving for a house on a single income?
    byu/Ackerack inpersonalfinance



    Posted by Ackerack

    5 Comments

    1. MegaThot2023 on

      Are you single or married / in a long term relationship? Why specifically do you want to buy a house?

      It depends where specifically you live and work. $118k/year in rural Ohio gives you much more house-buying power than in NOVA.

    2. For how to invest a house down payment, see my answer at [https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/comments/1qw18zi/comment/o3lq7uj/?context=3](https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/comments/1qw18zi/comment/o3lq7uj/?context=3)

      Most people want to contribute 15% to retirement each year, including match and IRA. Sounds like you would still hit that target, even if you reduced your contributions some. Going lower than that for a year or two isn’t a huge deal, but the probably becomes once you do it for one year, the temptation to say “what’s one more year” grows.

    3. josh_josh_josh_ on

      You seem to really care about maximizing your compound interest, which is a great headspace to be in making these decisions.

      Are you absolutely sure you need to cut into retirement contributions to start saving for a down payment? There’s no other expenses you could reduce? Lowering/eliminating your car payments, camping instead of international travel, etc?

    4. NewChameleon on

      depends entirely on buy (~1.5mil) vs. rent (~1.5k/month) ratio, mortgage interest rate (~6%), and also stock market performance (~10%), those will dictate how aggressive I will be for saving for house

      and right now, I’m putting a near-zero value in buying homes due to those numbers

      notice I intentionally left out “income” or “amount already saved in my retirement account”, those 2 are totally irrelevant

    5. AlphaTangoFoxtrt on

      Saving for a house *IS* saving for retirement. Having a paid off home makes your retirement expenses much lower.

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