I (stupidly) signed on as a co-buyer so that my boyfriend who has bad credit could buy a car with financing. I found out that he hasn't paid in a couple months and I want to do what I can to ensure my credit doesn't take a hit so I am just going to start paying it myself every month. However, for now, the company we have the loan with offered an extension which, from my understanding, will mean the loan will be extended by a month and therefore we'll pay more in interest overall but it will set the account to be "up to date" at this time and therefore will reduce late fees. I can't pay enough to get the account "up to date" immediately so it seemed this would be a better option. Is it likely we'll ultimately pay less fees if we take the extension?
Car loan late offered an extension
byu/MissionIcy9 inpersonalfinance
Posted by MissionIcy9
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Yess, the extension is probably the better move for now. You’ll pay more interest overall, but it can stop additional late fees and keep the account from falling further behind, which matters more for your credit. If you can’t catch up right away, it basically buys you time and limits the damage. Once you take over payments, just stay consistent, using something simple like a tracker can help keep everything on track.
are you also listed as an owner of the vehicle? if so take the keys & take the car.
park the car at a safe place, preferably in a nearby family members garage, & make plans to sell or return the vehicle(voluntary reposition), and pay out of pocket for the difference still owed to the bank after the sale/return.
if he has Not been making the loan payments, what are the odds he has even been paying the car insurance, its likely the car is uninsured and shouldn’t even be being driven.
if your BF is unable to make the car payments, he needs to lose the car and take the bus, get 10-speed bike, or get a ride from his friends.
you need to talk to the bank/lender about a process called voluntary reposition, essentially returning the car, it gives you some negotiating room to reduce some debt and fees owed, or about selling the car.
also if you have Not realized, your BF just bluntly told you that Not only is he Not a responsible adult & he doesn’t pay his bills or care about his future, and thus doesn’t care about making a good future with you,, he also if willing to screw you over for his own gain. personally i would Never stay with someone like that, because if they are willing to rip you off & screw you over, they don’t care about you. but that’s a separate issue you need to deal with in the near future by making plans to get away from the BF (no renewing a rental lease together etc), right now you need to take that car away and find out how to return it to the lender.