I’ve spent a decade claiming to be able to pick stocks. I’ve picked some winners and some losers during that time, and my labors have resulted in a near wash. Today, I have officially given in to the mantra suggesting that I cannot, in fact, pick stocks better than the average retail investor. I dumped nearly all of my positions (kept 3 personal favorites) and invested 50% of the proceeds in VT and 50% in VOO. That’s it, I’m done stock picking. ETFs are the answer. I was wrong.

    Today is the day I finally accepted the truth about stocks.
    byu/TheAnswer1776 instocks



    Posted by TheAnswer1776

    24 Comments

    1. Immediate-Run-7085 on

      Cool. Now calculate all the potential lost gains you could have had instead since the last decade

    2. Highly_Ubiquitous175 on

      At least you can get upvotes for admitting you wasted a decade of investing.

    3. expert-on-reddit on

      The other issue is that even if you can successfully pick stocks, unpredictable and unforeseen future events can destroy an individual company almost overnight. So even if you bet on the winning horse, it can still pull up lame at the finishing line.

    4. Glad u finally accepted the truth. I tried the stock picking for a year and came out even as well, all the “research “ and watching videos, discussions with people, all the efforts was just to get even again. Put all my money in voo and chill now, never made so much money

    5. JealousFuel8195 on

      Set it and forget it is the only long term strategy for the average investor. Yes, some might get lucky. However, the reality is most lose money.

    6. I_worship_odin on

      I learned this a couple of years ago. I make contributions to my 401(k) which is all total market funds and I play around with my brokerage account. Haven’t added to my brokerage account in 3~ years.

    7. Seriously we know we can’t beat even a decent ETF but we insist that we can pick better. Is that a gambler mindset or what’s the psychology behind?

    8. maglite_to_the_balls on

      Another ETF glaze being posted in an individual stock picking forum.

      Like you don’t even know where you are.

      Mods, this is not r/indexfunds, please start shitcanning this garbage.

    9. nefariousjordy on

      I made choices when I was younger that weren’t great. You’re still young enough to recover and still make good money.

    10. You were wrong and yet you are still liquid. Well done. You doing better than most.

    11. Here4Pornnnnn on

      I learned the same lesson in 2012, after losing money between 2009-2012 picking my own. Literally during a recession rebound I found a way to lose money. Best decision of my life, I’m making returns hand over fist now and it takes zero effort on my part.

    12. No-Contribution1070 on

      ETFs wont make you rich. Maybe in 50 years but who wants to enjoy money when they are 90?

    13. Stock picking and beating the market is a skill. It’s OK to admit you don’t have it.

    14. Smooth_Ferret8081 on

      ETF is not wrong but my portfolio is all individual stocks. Investing since April 2020. My paper gain is now at 251%

    15. ZombieSkipper on

      I personally like DFAI for international exposure. Smaller index, slightly higher risk, but higher returns. Worth looking into

    16. Skippymcpoop on

      It’s a tough lesson. It seems so easy to make money when you first get started, you don’t realize how it’s much much easier to lose money. Beating the market consistently takes a lot of skill, knowledge, work, and luck and there’s a reason why investors who can do it are filthy rich.

      Unless you’re willing to dedicate 80 hours a week to learning the ins and outs and researching companies you’re better off sticking to the easy gains.

    Leave A Reply
    Share via
    Share via